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Teens deal with unimaginable loss after both parents die from COVID-19: “We miss them”

Rita Marquez-Mendoza has at all times been near her two teenage grandsons, Nathan and Isaiah, however she by no means imagined that she’d change into the closest factor they’d should a mother or a dad. Her daughter Noehmi died of COVID-19 in July at simply 39 years previous. Mendoza mentioned she needed to say goodbye to her over the telephone.

“I had to tell her to go ahead and go home, that we would take care of Carlos, then we would take care of the boys,” Mendoza advised CBS News’ Janet Shamlian.

Carlos was the boys’ father, who Rita mentioned she beloved as certainly one of her personal. Days after Noehmi died, Carlos grew to become sick with COVID-19 as nicely. He died 15 days later and the boys had been orphaned.

“They’ve lost their mom and their dad in two weeks’ time. We were still in shock over Noehmi passing away. We hadn’t even begun to grieve yet. We were still in shock when they called us and tell us that Carlos passed away,” she recalled.

Every week she takes the boys to go to the double gravesite the place their parents are buried side-by-side.

“You mainly do it for your comfort because that’s all that you can do. You can’t go see them at their home. You can’t go out to eat with them. And that’s the only place that you have to go with them,” Mendoza mentioned.

Nathan and Isaiah have joined an unimaginable group of kids who’ve lost both parents to the coronavirus. Like the pandemic total, specialists say communities of colour and their youngsters have been hit hardest.

Both Nathan and Isaiah mentioned that they’re doing good however want their parents had been nonetheless with them.

“We miss them driving us around in Galveston, going by the beach and getting off places to go explore stuff over there,” Nathan mentioned. 

“Yeah, I also miss my mom’s cooking,” Isaiah added.

For every COVID death, a study found nine people will be impacted: shedding a mum or dad, little one, partner, sibling, or grandparent. There’s no monitoring of what number of youngsters have been orphaned by the virus.

Mendoza, who has already raised 5 of her youngsters, is now taking good care of Nathan and Isaiah. The boys dwell in Mendoza’s residence in Houston, the place they assist take care of the horses and chickens the household retains. Rita’s son and daughter-in-law are attempting to undertake the boys.

A GoFundMe was created to assist Nathan and Isaiah pursue their desires — Isaiah aspires to be an engineer and Nathan desires to be a mechanical engineer. Mendoza says seeing the boys attain these desires can be one thing her daughter would have appreciated to see.

“Yes, yes, yes. She would want her children where they are now because she knows that they’re loved, they’ve always been loved. And more than anything, she knows that this is where Isaiah and Nathan would want to be,” she mentioned.